Good Sex Tips:  An Outlook

Finding no fluff, good sex tips can be a doozy, but not an altogether impossible task.  The internet has made things easier than ever, but nothing like making the jog to your nearest bookstore could hurt.  The thing about finding good sex tips is you need to know what to avoid.

If you come across books or articles that are out of date, immediately discard that knowledge.   Yes, a lot of sexual tips are universal, but out of date material can be vague and have a hard time reaching the point.  Instead focus on tiered advice, tips that follow a logical progression.  An example of this would be following a sexual experience from  beginning to end.  From warming up a woman through caressing and oral sex to comfort her, to progressing to penetration and climax.

So what is a good sex tip?  Well let’s start with conversation.  Ask your partner.  It isn’t embarrassing, in fact, they will thank you for it later.  Often times couples are too caught up in pressure and emotion instead of just using logic beforehand.  Asking your partner before intercourse, and even before foreplay what they want to get aroused works wonders.

Roleplaying can be a fun way to change the way you view sex, but it isn’t for everyone.  A good tip is to introduce roleplaying during foreplay, so if your partner is not having any of it, you can immediately discard it before intercourse.   A good sex tip comes from women themselves, whom, upon thousands polled, generally agreed that if it is your first time with that partner, they prefer the missionary position first, as it establishes the most comfort.  If you are a male, creating a connection with the female is of the utmost importance.  While it may just seem like a passing feeling to you, these types of encounters last a lifetime with a woman.  Set the mood accordingly and play to her needs. 

This isn’t just about pleasing a woman however.  The more comfortable she feels the more you will reap the benefits.  In making her feel safe in bed, she is setting boundaries, which in turn lead her to trust you more, and engage in all aspects of sex.  Sometimes good sex tips involve simply good logic.